Loving and Being Loved: Conversations with my Dying Friend

Anne Crow
15 min readSep 10, 2019

“I want you to be around,” whispered her small, mousy voice. She looked up at me with sad, yellow eyes and reached up for a hug.

“Let’s make sure it lasts at least 20 seconds,” I said as we held each other.

“I’m already counting,” she replied. These hugs — the ones that we both knew might be the very last ones we’d share — lasted more like a minute each. She would pet my head, and I’d hold on as tight as I could, being careful to not hurt her frail body.

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Anne Crow

Sociologist / mental health blogger / sword swallower [timepiece324@gmail.com]